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Have you ever had that “prospective client” that you just couldn’t stop chasing? They seemed like they were the perfect fit for your product, service, style, etc. I had one of these! In the last year, I finally let mine go. They just weren’t that into me and I finally had to admit it was probably never going to happen. I thought I would feel blue and instead I felt light and free.
You may want to try this. Here are some ways to tell that he’s just not that into you:
- They are “nice” and keep giving you hope, but nothing ever happens.
- You don’t have access to all the right people and information.
- They always take your calls, but never commit to a next step.
- You are doing all the work.
- They keep telling you to “check back in next month/quarter/year”.
In my case, I let mine know that I would no longer be pursuing them as a client and that I would be happy to stay in touch and be a resource should my contact need anything. I’m not even recommending this, but I got my dignity back and it felt good.
Sometimes it just isn’t meant to be.
